Tradition. It is a word that sophomore Mary Stimson, Texas Eta, is very familiar with. Mary’s family has a tradition of attending Texas A&M University; she is the 19th consecutive family member to be an Aggie, the mascot of the school. Mary is the third member of Pi Beta Phi in her family, following sisters Texas Etas Sarah and Joy Stimson. And Mary loves that her school’s most beloved tradition is the tradition of respect.
As a University known for its strong military ties, Mary knows it is an honor to celebrate the lives of their comrades. One tradition is Aggie Muster, a celebration of the lives of fellow Aggies who have died, specifically in the last year. Muster takes place in locations all over the world and occurs every April 21. Families and friends of the Aggies who died will represent their loved ones by answering “here” during the roll call ceremony. Mary has attended the ceremony and writes letters to families that have lost an Aggie. Although she doesn’t personally know the individuals, they have a connection as part of the Aggie Family.
The Aggie Family – this is something Mary knows all too well with so many of her family members attending the university. But Mary also wanted to make the experience her own. Initially nervous and unsure what to expect, Mary decided she needed to make the most of her experiences at this prestigious University. One way she did this was through joining Pi Beta Phi.
Mary currently lives in the chapter house and is Vice President of Member Development. She is proud that the chapter has championed her to help challenge and encourage her sisters, reminding them, “I am here for you whatever that means or looks like,” she says. Mary loves the chapter’s reputation on campus as being very diverse and very united. “There is no one image of a Pi Phi, except we are all compassionate, kind and smart,” Mary says proudly. “Pi Phi is passionate about what Pi Phis are passionate about. We accommodate for what activities and organizations our sisters are involved in and love,” she says about the diversity of Texas Eta. Mary is honored to facilitate growth among the chapter, as both individuals and as a collective sisterhood.